17 things you should never say insecure and inexperienced driver
Here’s what you should not say to the driver-the beginner.
We are all different. Including behind the wheel. Only when we are about the same while driving, it is at the beginning of our driving, when just received first driver’s license. Unfortunately, even after a long training in driving school, many drivers become confident behind the wheel.
The first time we experience real fear when you first find yourself on the road without an instructor. Naturally, the first few years we gain experience, but not enough to feel safe behind the wheel. And even if the driver is a novice it looks cool, it is easy to start stupid because only one phrase. We have gathered for you the phrases that in any case you shouldn’t be talking restless and unsure of the driver. Especially the beginner.
1) Never ask a rookie driver when he got their rights
It just so happened that we love to ask the drivers-beginners questions related to their driver’s license. But we don’t advise you to ask these drivers the issue date of their driver’s license. The fact that if a regular driver with experience of this issue will not confuse the driver-the beginner will begin to get a complex, thinking that you asked the question mockingly.
Especially inappropriate such a question after some nervous situation on the road that happened due to the lack of a driver driving experience. If you want to know when the inexperienced driver was right, don’t do it in the car, and elsewhere. Otherwise you run the risk that a driver with no experience about kink even more. The result is even more stressful as a passenger.
2) do Not distract the driver behind the wheel, reminding him that he forgot to fasten the seat belt
It is not necessary to disturb a rookie driver in case he forgot to fasten the seat belt, reminding him that in addition to non-compliance with security unfastened seat belt face a fine. At this point you run the risk of distracting the inexperienced driver who can make a mistake, causing an accident.
3) it is Not necessary to ask the driver why he is lost in you
Many drivers at the start of my driving is very much lost to passengers. However, it is usually not in front of each passenger. For example, if the driver is a novice sits experienced motorist, before it shyness and awkwardness guaranteed. If as a passenger in the car going not the driver, as a rule, inexperienced drivers are not particularly nervous.
So don’t bother uncertain drivers, asking them why they lost on the road, when you’re sitting down. This can cause even greater panic.
4) don’t have to ask the newbie why he firmly holds the steering wheel
It is foolish to ask of any driver, why is it so hard grabbed the steering wheel. Especially insecure driver. Moreover, what is the meaning of this question? Don’t you know that an inexperienced driver is afraid to be inattentive and very focused not only on how not to damage your car, but to save your ass from the consequences of a possible accident?
5) Who sold you your rights?
In this question you will do more harm than good. At least the driver-the beginner this question you feel confident on the road do not give.
6) Never ask in a rude manner a beginner to go slower
Many of us are very afraid to ride as a passenger with inexperienced drivers. But they themselves are often disturbed by insecure drivers a variety of questions and even give advice, and not having personal experience of driving. However, the worst is when we begin to fear in a rude manner to ask inexperienced drivers to go slower. Believe me, it will not save you from the nerves and tension when travelling with a driver-beginner. Such a request you, conversely, can make things worse.
7) don’t ask a freshman to go on the motorway
We should all remember that it is not necessary the first time to ask an inexperienced driver to drive on the highway. First, do not forget that during the training of the driving candidates drivers according to current traffic is forbidden to travel with avtoinstruktor on the motorway.
Of course, where in this case, it can take the experience of driving on the highway at the beginner? So I do not advise you to show an inexperienced driver the road leading through the highway.
8) do Not need to constantly tell the driver to comment on his actions
If you are in the car, at the wheel which sits the driver, recently received a driver’s license, you need to take it a rule to behave like at the dinner table: “When I eat, I am deaf and dumb.” Especially for those who like to give advice to drivers. Believe me, your silence, on the contrary, will make your trip a sheepish driver more relaxed and safe.
9) in Any case, do not force the beginner to get into the fast lane
If you are furious that the driver-the beginner dragging the right lane, where he constantly honking trucks, in any case, don’t ask an inexperienced motorist to readjust to the fast lane. Believe me, in the right lane the driver, who only recently got the right to be safe and secure. Even if this band is constantly honking truck drivers who hate how slow inexperienced drivers.
10) do Not abuse inexperienced driver, jerking the gas pedal and hard braking
Before you yell and scold inexperienced motorist, remember when you were just starting your drive home (or their friends). Then you quickly return itself to the earth and understand that very few drivers in the world, which immediately gain confidence behind the wheel after receiving a driver’s license. Don’t forget that stick-slip is quite natural for those drivers that have just recently started to drive.
11) No need to rush to the aid of the beginner, when he’s going to Park
Many of us think that all drivers-beginners are not able to Park, and therefore always want to help, many inexperienced motorists assistance. It is certainly good, but never rush things. To help you out anytime, if that. Allow the driver to Express themselves and try to Park the car yourself. Don’t forget: the only way the drivers-beginners can gain experience.
12) don’t You know how to parallel Park?
This is the most horrible and stupid question, which, of course, there is the mockery towards the driver. Recall that parallel Parking a car is the most complex of all types of Parking. You will not believe, but in the world there are many drivers with great experience behind the wheel, for which parallel Parking is still a dark forest. So do not expect novice drivers that they will become in a short time geniuses parallel Parking. Of course, no need to get angry or get nervous drivers when they are experiencing difficulties with Parking. You’ll ruin everything.
13) do Not scare the driver.
Many of us like to scare inexperienced drivers of the approaching trucks. Do not forget that the driver is a novice experiences behind the wheel the first time is a huge stress. In fact, the uncertain drivers are afraid of any vehicle around. You understand that truck for them appear monsters transformers from another planet. So never try to scare the drivers of the truck, which was fast approaching the car, advising the newcomer to change lanes. So you can easily cause an accident.
14) do You want to kill us?
One wrong sentence that will finish any beginner. Of course, no driver wants to kill anyone. Everything that happens on the road with any driver-novice, there is, certainly, not on purpose. Don’t forget that. And never ask stupid question like drivers. If you really think inexperienced driver behaves dangerously on the road, then maybe you yourself are driving, and an inexperienced driver to rest?
15) Blind spot! Where are your eyes?
When we begin our drive home, we will always have difficulty for control of the road, other vehicles while driving. Naturally, a beginner does not have time to follow everything and is often wrong. Including wrong and when changing lanes, often without monitoring blind spots, which can drive the cars. But this does not mean that an inexperienced driver need to shout, asking him what he did with his eyes. And no need to constantly remind the beginner of blind zones. Believe me, he knows them better than you. Understand that a driver with no experience would be happy to do everything right. But, alas, often for the first time, it’s impossible.
16) No need to rush the driver when the light turned green at the traffic lights
Do not expect inexperienced driver’s immediate responses to traffic lights. So if the driver hesitated, this is normal. Especially if it happens in the city with dense traffic flow. In such motion quick start from traffic lights is unlikely to provide you the advantage because, most likely, even if you’ll be ahead of the main thread, it’ll catch up with you at the next light. Plus do not forget that such sharp starts from traffic lights increases the risk of accident. Especially if you are in the driver’s seat sits an inexperienced driver.
17) I said to turn, and what did you do?
No need to yell at the driver if he you ask to turn took a ride. Even you warned the driver about the turn in advance, do not forget that to err is entitled to any motorist. Especially the one who recently got behind the wheel.